warning:
vomit inducing post alert! do not proceed if you can't take people being mushy/lovey dovey and get all personal! don't say i don't warn you ah!
okay so this particular meme has been circulating around for quite a while (if you have been following the blogosphere in malaysia and not only follows those who are around you. broaden your network people! broaden your network wtf!) and i first saw it from
pinkpau who happened to be the one who created the whole random questions. and then being the bad, persuasive, evil girlfriend who does nothing but demanding her boyfriend to do girly stuff to make her happy, obviously i forced gedik to do this meme.
and this post is also in conjunction for us knowing each other for a year.
sidenote to gedik: knowing each other and being together are two different things just so you know faaris, there is another (worse?) thing coming if we make it to first year anniversary etc etc 
so i present to you, The Great Couple Meme: Faaris & Pinksterz Version!
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tell us about the first time you met and your first impression of him/herin short, i can say that he did the unspeakable by breaking the first biggest rule of a blind date and that is to Be On Time! hmph.
but the long explaination for it is (well, you know how long winded i can be sometimes so pardon me *cough* so prepare yourself)...
it was on this same date a year ago when we promised to meet each other during the gap between our exams so that i could pass him half of the bones he was buying from me. but unfortunately he reached the college later than expected because he got stuck in the traffic jam. so he texted me while he was still on the way, telling me that he was in a hurry since he was going to be late and need to find his exam venue according to his student id number and told me if he was to come find me he was afraid there would be not enough time for him. obviously, i was pissed (you know how i hate to wait for people and stuff haha!) and i told him to tell me his student id number and i would go check the exam venue for him and his friends (which actually my way of saying "i dont want to wait" subtly wtf).
to which he replied,"
no no. it is okay. sorry sorry sorry. boleh tunggu tak? exam is just one hour.
and i am so sure i will be done less than that since it is only english paper". so i actually waited for almost an hour when he finally appeared. i recognised him from the pictures he put in his friendster and facebook and he recognised me because i was the only malay girl among all the egyptians who was standing in that area.
but because of all that incidents, we ended up having lunch together on that day with another friend of mine and from that day, we have become quite close. :) i think if its not because of his lateness, we won't be what we are today haha. maybe just a normal online buddies/senior-junior/college colleagues.
and because of that incident, obviously my first impression of him is very bad! and not to forget, very gedik (hence the annoying nick which i have been addressing him in my blog) because when we were in the taxi on the way to lunch, he kept complaining about the warm weather and i kept thinking "omg so mengadanya this boy".
what’s a weird habit or quirk that s/he has?he doesn't like to eat chicken legs and won't eat one no matter what (unless of course if he is stranded on an island and there are chicken legs only for him to eat hurhurhur). oh and he doesn't like to have cincau/barley/cendol/jelly/sago etc etc in his drink.
what makes him/her happy?ferrari, steak (seriously he is the incarnation of a carnivore or i bet he is a tiger/lion in his previous life wtf), dslr & photography, basketball, travelling, and of course ME!
what makes him/her sad?when i say i want to find a new boyfriend hahahahaha (he actually has the cheek to answer me "period" wtf. damn naughty ah you! *spanks*)
what makes him/her angry?:closed-minded people, racism, messy places, noises, dirtiness, selfishness, annoying people (excluding me of course wtf) and also when he sees another guy checking out/flirt with me wtf
what excites him/her?porns of course hahahaha nolah nolah joking. that should be anything related to dslr and photography, travelling, erm and hanging out with me (you better say so ah gedik)?
tell us something funny about him/herthere are so many things for me to tell you but the funniest one i think is his ridiculous typo mistakes! why i said ridiculous because some of the letters he mistakenly typed in while chatting were situated so far from each other but his fingers tend to press the wrong key! ie he wanted to press "N" but instead his finger went to "R" instead. his excuse for this is that his keyboard arrangement is the latest one and it is different from the normal qwerty keyboard we are using so he is still "adjusting" his fingers to the new arrangement (and guess who actually believed that ridiculous excuse last time? answer: me FML).
but i said either that or his fingers are either too long wtf.
oh, and his typos are not limited to typing the wrong letters only but also the words too! the most recent one is when he was referring to someone husband but instead he used the term wife instead. like he wanted to say ali suami siti but he ended up saying ali isteri siti.
so from now on i am pinksterz teman lelaki faaris and faaris teman wanita pinksterz wtf.
what’s s/he like at home?he will be in casual tshirt and track bottom either studying/watching football/sleeping/photoshoping/servicing and cleaning his dslr/browsing his pictures/cleaning and tidying up his room. if it is tuesday, he will be the one cooking the lunch!
what’s s/he like at work/school?in the college he seems to be the normal ones you know. he changes he seat from time to time (wtf i sound so stalkerish here)! but sometimes he fools around with his friends when the doctors not yet come, ie singing wonderpets song WTF. and he is the attentive type too! wtf can you believe that i fell asleep in class way more frequent than him!! but usually he minds his own business.
describe his/her roomi have never actually been in his room yet. but i know his room in malaysia is in navy blue with navy theme hahahaha so cute right! and in egypt his room is shared with two other guys. there is only one single bed and the other two mattresses are on the floor (he sleeps on the floor seriously, boys. *rolls eyes*) and within his "area", there is one table for him to study and put his books i guess and he sticked up some of the nice shots he took during his trips as his own mini gallery.
what’s his/her best friend like?i am yet to meet any of his close friends so i am not reaaaaaaally sure who is his bestie so far.
do you know who s/he hates the most?i don't think he hates anyone. dislikes yes, but not until to the extent of hating them.
have you met his/her exes?nope.
do his/her parents like you?i don't know. but they do know about me and sometimes send their regards to me. :)
what’s the first thing s/he would do or say if s/he fell down and scraped their kneehe won't say anything i think. maybe just a little "ouch" or something and then try to tolerate the pain. but with me, i am so sure he will act all mengada and manja like those times when he falls sick wtf.
what would s/he do in an emergency situation with other people involved?he will try his best to help. and if the situation involves his loved ones, he will make sure they are okay first. :)
which shop would s/he spend the most time at in a shopping mall?french connection, nike, toy r us, virgin, rainforest cafe & restaurant wtf.
what would s/he have for a typical breakfast?borio and fruit juice! or something similar.
where would s/he want to go for dinner?steak house definitely.
what kind of movie would s/he choose at the cinema?he tends to choose what i call the sleep-inducing movies. think the happening, seven pounds (although that movie is quite meaningful and touching but in my defense i kept on yawning throughout the movie wtf) because he always judges based on the their posters because he said they look mysterious and ignite the curiousity in him wtf. other than that he will go for mystery, thriller, jim carey's, m. night shayamalan's and blockbusters like batman.
describe his/her taste in musictop 40 stuff. he is more of a hitz.fm person.
if s/he wasnt going out with you, who would s/he be going out with?clemence poesy (inside joke)
what item in his/her wardrobe would you like to burnnone so far. but i think if i am angry at him, i will go for his basketball shoes.
what is s/he good at?basically art stuff like photography, drawing, photoshoping, eating, basketball.
what is s/he totally horrible at?pujuk-ing me :(
what’s something about him/her that is annoying/infuriating?when he refuses to ask for directions if we got lost in the middle of nowhere, his indecisiveness in deciding on certain stuff, and his jealousy sometimes drives me up the wall but nowadays he really tones down on that :) oh here is another thing infuriating about him! he loves to test my patience (jokingly of course) by asking me with stupid questions/answering them stupidly *
click* or asking "why" to every of my respons! i give you example lah.
him: what are you doing?
me: oh nothing just chillaxing
him: why are you chillaxing
me: because i am tired
him: why are you tired?
me: why you keep asking me why?!
him: why you ask me why am i asking you why?
me: ...
and another thing is he really can manipulate your prank into his prank wtf. grrrr.
what’s something that you two fundamentally disagree on?that i have super many peminats wtf. that jim sturgess is like the hottest guy on earth (honestly!). he is gedik/i am mengada. pepsi is cooler than coke (obviously!!)
what’s something that you two agree whole-heartedly on?hmmm i couldn't recall anything HOW IS THIS POSSIBLE?!?!?!?! okay okay urmmmmm here's one that we should just be our ownself because that's what makes us happy. never to conform to the norm if we don't want to!
is s/he possessive?yes. sometimes. but that means he is jealous which is good! :P
why would s/he succeed in life?his optimistism, determination and maturity (although he chooses when to show that to people).
what is the coolest gift that s/he has ever given you?got this one time when i actually merajuk-ed with him for real and he tried to pujuk me back for quite a long time (what to do? yours truly finds its hard to forgive and forget) which he surprised me by buying me mcdonalds, starbucks cheesecake (!!!) and also lotsa of my favourite chocolates! :) somemore i didn't expect that at all because he is not that good in pujuk-ing. *shiny eyes* i guess he is not that bad eh? ;)
what is s/he obsessed with?photography and travelling.
what does s/he avoid at all costs?making me angry/sad. and chicken legs.
what does s/he spend the most money on?his photography gadgets.
describe his/her typical sundaysince our weekend here is actually friday so i am going to change this question to friday. in the morning he will go for his usual morning jogging session or play football with his housemates. then after that he will catch a short nap until afternoon. sometimes after waking up he will greet me in yahoo for a short chat before getting ready for the friday's prayer. after that he will have his lunch and laze around or studying. in the evening he will either go out for drinks with friends or hang out with them in the malls or play bowling or something. that or he will go out to find dinner. if he is not, he will be at home watching tv or studying. and later, he will again chat with me in messenger if i am not yet asleep.
why would s/he be dangerous?never ever try to test his patience. once its reaches the limit then you gonna wish you are never borned yo! unless you wish to lose a limb or two wtf.
tell us about a time s/he looked absolutely gorgeousduring the time when we went for sushi last year after the finals ended.
needless to say, this is my favourite picture of him.
what’s something about him/her that would surprise all of his/her friends?he can give good advices! sometimes he sounds
almost like my dad wtf.
what do you love most about him/her?physically, i love his hair the most! seriously his hair is too straight it would put rebonding to shame. until you want to guna jari kaki pun boleh hahahaha. but most importantly, he can accept me for who i am and deal with my emoness and temper patiently. :) not many guys i knew from the past managed to deal with my anger management problem as well as he could.
the biggest lesson you have learnt from loving your partnerto accept others as the way they are, to forgive and forget, and we can actually just walk to anywhere we want to go no matter what the distance is as long we have the will! and also yahoo messenger is not that lame/uncool. i was once a heavy msn user but nowadays no more. :P
but i still love my monkeh icons a lot more than yahoo's. wek.
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okay! now his answers tehehehehee... *cue for suspense music wtf* and because i am super annoying like that i will put in comments to some of his answers *dominating wtf*
Tell us about the first time you met and your first impression of him/herI found her blog while I was blog-hopping randomly from my friend’s. At first I thought that she is from Alexandria University (it is far away from Cairo up to the north) based on her blog.Well, I mean her writing of her overrated rants and whatsoever in her blog. And I added her in my MSN, she approved me and we chatted. It turned out a good thing that night when she told me that she’s in the same college as mine; A SENIOR, very cheeky one.
So we decided to meet on 20th May last year (idk what day). Coincidentally it was the only day that we’d be able to meet up since our exam schedule was totally different. And the intention of the meeting was, just to pass on a half-set of already-
contenged-by-her skeleton that she’d agreed on to sell it to me. Then we had our first lunch at Chili’s accompanied by her friend, Nisa on the same day. Oh okay, ermm her eyes is the uniquely beauty. And got tahi lalat also.
What’s a weird habit or quirk that s/he has?To win everything and cannot accept to lose. I mean
everything. And because I am so mature, letting her win on the silliest argument is something tolerable for me. But not when it goes to something serious.
What makes him/her happy?Winning, that makes her even more
mengada. Unfortunately
mengada equals to her forever-to-live happiness. A nice stroll out evening with ice cream, to wear on the finery clothes that’d up brighten her self-esteem, Hersey’s Kisses, Kit-kat Peanut Butter, Hello Panda crackers, shoes (…), Cecelia Ahern’s books and (yawning..) Jim Sturgess x1000. …Canon G10 (currently)
Me?
(me: i. am. NOT. mengada.)What makes him/her sad?When she’s in some sort of trouble and there is nobody to comfort her (even though she is kinda the strongest girls I've ever met). Ignoring her or forgetting our memorable times and events. Not to forget when her first hamster was sick to the death.
What makes him/her angry?If somebody accidently or intentionally fold in any page of her favorite book. Or if I inadvertently fell asleep while she is talking to me. (Kidding) ermm she’d be angry if I flirt to the other girl. haha (kidding again). And.. There’s one thing that made her mad so much once which I couldn’t say it here. But both of us know about it. Still I am feeling guilty for my bad. Ohya, the crazy internet connection and water retention! (haha)
What excites him/her?Canon G10 I guess. She craved about this stuff all the time. SALESSSS and JIM STURGESS. Yeah, it’s Jim Sturgess. KFC’s spicy chicken. Bullying me which will end up that I am the one who is bullying her until she feels annoyed and give up.
Ohya, to have me around and chill out together.
Tell us something funny about him/herShe doesn’t like cats. Be it a cute cat, a small cat, a big cat, adorable cat, or whatever cat. She will freak out to find out that there’s a cat under the table. But by the story of our outing to the Zoo during the last winter-break, what amazed me into silence that she didn’t really mind of holding a big, heavy and smelly lion’s cub lovingly.
Occasionally when she’s at home, she’d love to slip on her own icy bathroom so many times and get injured on her own.
Some more, she likes to place her glasses at one place and won't be able find it afterwards. Happened so many times also. Why are you always being like this haa (kesian haha)
(me: *add "finding the gf glasses everytime she misplaces it" to your boyfriend duty list*)What’s s/he like at home?Simple and nice. Hot. Spoilt. Well, she’s likely to wear on simple as pants and tees but sometimes tanktop with hotpants when no one is around.
What’s s/he like at work/school?Spick and span. Guess she is very a hardworking girl, and “jangok” also. That’s what I heard. During class she’d be sitting at the few last row from the occupied seats in front, I noticed her writing notes and making jokes with her colleagues. Yeah, she’s very quiet from my point of view but idk for real there.
Describe his/her roomHer room is pink in color, with pinkish wallpapers, a king size bed + her bantal busuk (imported from Malaysia), ohya, there were a zoo of soft toys on her bed guarding her every night, but currently there are just Mr.pink, a huge teddy bear and a small Starbucks plush bought at Dubai. Where mostly everything is decorated pink in color.
What’s his/her best friend like?I don’t really know but, most of them are very cool and sporting.
Do you know who s/he hates the most?Backstabber. She’s not a kind of person that’d hate people. She’s likely just to ignore them; forever?
Have you met his/her exes?Nope. Should I?
Do his/her parents like you?I guess so. Astonishingly they are always on my side though. Well, we’ve known each other very well and they are very cool and sporting.
What’s the first thing s/he would do or say if s/he fell down and scraped their knee"Ouhh!" Then insert this ---> X( ---> report and asking for my sympathy as she is traumatized by the injury. (haha joking but its trueee :P)
(me: not to forget the T________T icon!!!! hahahaha)What would s/he do in an emergency situation with other people involved?She’ll try to look cool in front of everybody, but what will happen next is she’d be freaking out and start asking for help. Some more she’ll text me with “OMG OMG OMG”. The best part is to claim on her oneself of being macho in the situation when I ask her about it.
But the fact is, she will try at her best to help them and never to accept for any kind of complement given.
Which shop would s/he spend the most time at in a shopping mall?Bookstore, shoes shop and Ha Un eM (H&M).
What would s/he have for a typical breakfast?The hale and hearty Oprah’s diet perhaps. Hash brown, scrambled egg and fresh orange juice..
Where would s/he want to go for dinner?Pasta. Italian food. It doesn’t really matter as we can spend times together. Trying new food and restaurant is a fun thing to do right??
(me: but the whole gaining new fat is not fun at all wtf)What kind of movie would s/he choose at the cinema?Romantic comedy, Disney’s, a funny chick flick.
Describe his/her taste in music 80’s Oldies; Beatles, Petula Clark, ABBA, Sudirman
If s/he wasn’t going out with you, who would s/he be going out with?An annoying fat guy with blue curly hair.
What item in his/her wardrobe would you like to burn?I don’t know what’s it called, but it is like some kind of curtain dress fashion with a striking color. The shoes that has one big ribbon on top of it. Or Arabian (puked) over-rated flashy fashion.
Haha well, I don’t think that I’d be burning her dress because everything that she puts on would turn up to be very nice and gorgeous clothes. What a brilliant couture to be!
What is s/he good at?Decoration, photographs and arts. Memorizing the corny dates and events. She’s got a great skill of arguing though. However, those things that she’s good at had proved me that she is a very smart and creative kind of girl. And how I should be more conscious of the situation and never to take things for granted.
What is s/he totally horrible at?Making decision. She is very indecisive kind of girl. Idk, riding a bicycle maybe? I used to ask her to ride a bicycle with me but she refused to. idk the most horrible part yet.
What’s something about him/her that is annoying/infuriating?When she’s giving me a cold shoulder.
What’s something that you two fundamentally disagree on?Either one of us should not fall asleep if we’re talking and spending time with each other. A stupid close-minded person that loves to stalk and make ridiculous assumptions about us. Disagreement of whether the Sony Ericsson or Nokia cell phone is best manufacturer.
What’s something that you two agree whole-heartedly on?Sightseeing , travelling and exploring new places, intentionally breaking the stupid rules and making controversy out of crowd. Be adventurous- try something neither of us has done. To show appreciation for personal attributes, and do not lie to each other.
(me: omg you put me to shame for being able to list down alot wtf how can!)Is s/he possessive?Not really.. Possessive in an adorable way
Why would s/he succeed in life?Because she is a smart girl. Attractive and motivated to go further.
What is the coolest gift that s/he has ever given you?A box of delightful homemade truffles for my 21 years old birthday.
What is s/he obsessed with?Shoes (x1000xx), Canon G10,
JIM STURGESS, Cecelia Ahern’s, Sophie Kinsella’s, Harry Potter, Daniel Jacob Radcliffe, Klose.
What does s/he avoid at all costs?Milky stuffs. She’s afraid of milk, or anything that contains milk in it. Wanna bet? (or to Make me feel jealous?)
What does s/he spend the most money on?On her favorite novels and fast food deliveries. Cabs
Describe his/her typical SundayA perfectionist. By the way it’s not on her typical Sunday but every day. Most likely she wakes up early in the morning, or near afternoon(if there’s no classes on that day). She’d be lazing around for few minutes before hook up on her notebook to check emails, facebook, blog updates and browsing the internet randomly. Then having lunch either by delivery or cooking and then proceed to study by the whole day while listening to her favorite playlist or memorizing the movie corny lines. She takes shower later on as she claims of being
wangi all the time yeah, I hope so.
Why would s/he be dangerous?When she gets mad is it a really serious thing. as someone to hurt her feeling or make fun of her perhaps.
Tell us about a time s/he looked absolutely gorgeousIn the morning. When she’s wearing the purple kebaya. Or the time she’s being serious.
What’s something about him/her that would surprise all of his/her friends?She is the witty Pinksterz. A shy girl that can be very talkative instead.
What do you love most about him/her?Much of herself.
The biggest lesson you have learnt from loving your partnerThe “honeymoon stage” at the beginning of the relationship can cloud reality. If we get to know each other at a slower pace and still like each other in real life, we may really have grounds for a healthy relationship. It’s all about communication, commitment, faithfulness, patience, to practice and accept forgiveness.
(me: okay this answer totally make mine sounds super shallow wtf)
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oh here's another thing!
(in the evening, on the MSN when he was transferring to me his answers)
him: ehhhhhhh last question jawapan kita almost the same lah
me: really? *went to check*
me: eh ya lah! hahaha
him: :P
me: oh you tiru i! hmph.
him: ....
told ya i always love to win.
p.s. good luck for your practical histology tomorrow okay? *sayang*
