NOTE: THIS POST IS WRITTEN ON 14 OCTOBER 2009, 5.40 PM (GMT+2) when i was extremely pissed and angry. currently things are different with faaris, azmie, and me. but to tell the story, i have to still explain what exactly happened before three of us decided to call a truce.
this post is dedicated to a certain someone with moniker Edoraemon.
*sniggers sniggers*
ops. must do it with dignity. teehee. okok. no laughing.
*supress laughter*
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okay firstly, i never support blogwar.
and secondly, i never like to have fight with other girls regarding a boy. or boys for this matter. or vice versa. i would prefer to settle things peacefully and rationally by discussing with those who are involved face to face. because that's the best way.
but this time a certain someone really ruffled my feathers BIG TIME. because this girl interferred with an issue which didn't involve her AT ALL. she listened to one side of the story only, took side without thinking/listening to the other side, and decided to defend her guy friend and made her own conclusion without any proof.
be patient people for i will reveal who is the certain someone in a moment. in the meantime, sit down, lay back, prepare yourself with caramelised popcorn and softdrinks in hands and enjoy the unfolding drama!
*jeng jeng jeng*
so one day i was browsing the net, bloghopping as usual reading stuff online and i came across this post written written by a medical student in egypt. or to be specific in zagaziq university.
these are the printscreens of the said post:
(i highlighted the post because she used colorful text and it was bloody hard for you to read it, blue on a green background? someone in real need to learn about color contrast. okay here's something for you miss edoraemon *
CLICK* something to help you to choose font color next time perharps? (i am so thoughtful i know)
and no the post is not what actually triggered my anger. because I KNOW I HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH THEM MESSAGING EACH OTHER ALTHOUGH I WAS MENTIONED IN IT AS PEREMPUAN 2.
did you see i post it in my blog and comment on it before this?
no.
because i am clever enough to figure that a small issue like this can be settled nicely by discussing face to face. :)
although i knew faaris was pissed when he found out azmie kept contacting me last time even after he knew we were together. and i tried to tell him to ignore this fellow continously i guess one has their own patience. i bet if someone messed around with your girl, you will get super angry also right?
so what actually make me angry?
it was the comments from all those unrelated, brainless people who simply wrote/commented whatever they thought without any PROOF. BUKTI KUKUH. they simply read the post, listen to one side of the story (in this case it was from mohd azmie a sabahan boy, a colleague of mine) and listened to their emotion to defend their own friend or fellow sabahan.
(note which comments i hightlighted here)
original source
HERE.
notice that i higlighted certain comments?
that is because these few comments which actually make me angry.
i wasn't angry because faaris sent that message although when i first found out about this, i was quite upset with him for unable to control his anger and did things without thinking straight. (which she claimed to be rude and i agreed that faaris was rude in his message too) to azmie nor am i angry when azmie replied back to him with same rudeness, ie using rude words and stuff (so it's fair and square here. both of them were emotionally unstabled when they wrote those messages and i understood that perfectly).
so i decided to write a comment to her EXPLAINING what actually happened since she
suka suki made her own assumption(s) that i bloody flirted with that azmie *shudder*
this is the EXACT comment that i wrote to her on 12 october 2009.
assalamualaikum.
maaf le mengganggu ye. sebab tiba tiba nama saya pun disebutkan dalam komen sekali. ye sayalah PEREMPUAN 2 yang ko tulis dalam post ni. haha.
dah berjuta tahun ko tulis baru aku tau rupanya ko ikut bengang sebab azmie ye, hahahahahaha lawak. maybe sebab aku tak pernah suka jaga tepi kain orang selagi aku takde kaitan dengan apa apa isu tu lah kan.
first i just want to say. APA KAITAN KO DENGAN ISU FAARIS, AZMIE AND AKU? takde apa peranan pun kan? yang terlibat pun sebenarnya dua orang tu. aku pun tak tahu si faaris ada sent message tapi dia ada la bagitau aku before nak gaduh-gaduh ni. fine maybe ko nak defend azmie as a friend (clap clap ada semangat setiakawan di situ) by posting all those private messages between those two guys, tapi yang aku nampak ko just make situation worse.
kalau aku nak malukan azmie tu boleh je beb. nak aku publish segala sms sms dia hantar dekat aku? segala chat history yang dia tulis hantar dekat aku? berapa kali dia kol aku sampai aku naik menyampah nak jawab? ada yang dia cakap kotor kotor semua? apa kes bagitau segala ex dia dulu kuat nafsu? or yang dia asyik mimpikan aku? siapa yang tergegeh nak dekat siapa aku pun tak tau haha. nak aku publish semua tu dekat blog aku and malukan azmie balik? haha
maybe ko tak kisahlah kan kalau a guy cakap macam tu dekat kau. and kalau betul kau tak kisah that tells me A LOT about you. :)
nak kata aku flirt with him? hello that is not even flirting by MY STANDARD. and younger boys than my age? please. i aint a paedo yo!
aku baik baik dengan azmie or sherhan or mana mana boys satu kelas tu? that's just being friendly. tak tahu lah kan kalau ADIK ADIK SEKALIAN anggap kemesraan sebagai kawan itu sudah flirt. hahaha tepuk dada tanya selera sapa yang perasan.
kalau nak cakap aku tak bagitau azmie aku bercouple dengan faaris ezanee waktu tu, azmie ada hantar sms mintak maaf ckp dia tak tahu aku dah ada bf. and aku replied elok-elok cakap "its okay. aku tak suka nak kecoh ada bf or special someone." and aku reply tu pun sebab aku taknak ada rasa segan sebab aku satu kelas.
sebab bagi aku personal life sendiri jaga lah buat apa nak kecoh bagitau sedunia beb ko ada pakwe ke makwe. lainlah kalau -whats the word? oh ya you are kampungan? haha.
tapi nampaknya azmie ni pun ada manipulate alot of things. kalau aku nak kurang ajar boleh je aku cakap JADILAH LELAKI SIKIT NAK BERDEPAN ISU NI JUMPA DEPAN DEPAN APA KES KAU NAK SURUH/PERGUNAKAN OTHER GIRL PUBLISH BENDA KEJADAH NI AND BURUKKAN KEADAAN KAN? but takpe biarkan je lah dia happy dengan alot of lies yang dia bagitau. bukan ada effect to my life in anyway.
tapi FYI all girls in my class dah label si azmie tu player yo! itu pun dah cukup nak jelaskan keadaan. ;)
and by the way, currently faaris and azmie dah berdamai and aku takde apa apa isu baik dengan faaris or dengan azmie. tapi kepada saudari FAZ, sudah sudahlah nak jaga tepi kain orang. sebab ko takde apa kaitan pun dengan isu ni. haha.
tujuan komen ni cuma nak jelaskan keadaan sebab nampaknya commentor commentor di blog ni sedap sedap je menuduh saying that i flirted with that azmie. biasalah. semua orang emosional kot (walaupun takde kaitan dengan kes kecil macam ni. budak budak lah katakan). :)
peace out! maaflah ye kalau komen lewat macam ni buat ko bengang tapi aku nak explain je. assalamualaikum. :)
p.s. i don't expect you to publish this comment by the way and i dont mind if you delete it.
2009 Oktober 13 01:47
and the proof that she indeed deleted my comment?
to be honest i didn't mind if she didn't approve my comment AT ALL but there is no reason for her to delete it right? ;) unless she is scared to show it to the world lah as it might put her so called "theory" that i flirted with azmie as bullshit. and also if she didn't reciprocate with a post bashing my comment!
and i think the readers might think i talk cock without any proof(s) simply typed that azmie did this and that to me right?
as this happens, LUCKILY i havent delete some of the last few sms that he sent to me last may 2009. so here goes the SMS PICTURES GALLORE! ENJOY!
(i had told azmie i am going to put all these pictures in this post and he said he is fine with it as long we are okay after this and i don't see the point for me to censor his name in the picture since i have mentioned the word "azmie" like million times before in this post)
SO MISS EDORAEMON, WHO FLIRTED WITH WHO NOW?
oh you might argue that i REPLIED to all those texts and that might misled azmie into thinking that i have feelings for him?
my dear, the only reason i replied to all those messages because i considered him as a fellow colleague from college. i thought him more of my little brother. i didn't think he had any intentions (YES I AM VERY NAIVE LAH KAN) or flirting with me when he sent all those texts to my phone.
if you want to question me why i can be so friendly to him, i can list out all names of my guy friends who knows me inside out, in fact i am waaaaaaaaaay more friendlier to them than this azmie. i am waaaaaaaaaaay closer to them than azmie. :)
and did all my guy friends thought i am flirting with them when i am being so friendly to them?
no, they didn't.
because they know what does FRIENDLY means.
those are some of the texts sent by azmie to me that i (luckily) haven't delete. i always clean up my inbox every week but THANK TO GOD i haven't since last may because i was busy with the finals. jangan pulak nak fikir aku kempunan sangat nak simpan sms sms ye adik azmie. but at least hey! i can now write with concrete proof. ;)
and if you don't believe it, you are welcomed to look for me in the college (if you are in the same college as me) or you are welcomed to set a meet up with me (just email me or call me or anything! i am up for it!) and i will show you all those smses for FREE.
i really decide to let her go with it but since she reciprocated with another post bashing me and my comment (AND MAY I REMIND YOU THAT SHE NEVER EVEN DARED TO PUBLISH MY COMMENT? INSTEAD SHE JUST REPLIED SO HOW ON EARTH THE READERS GONNA KNOW WHAT I WROTE. OH EDORAEMON, YOU WANT THEM TO BECOME LIKE YOU LAH IS IT? SIMPLY WANT PEOPLE TO ASSUME WHAT HAPPENED THEN WRITE ANOTHER STUPID COMMENTS BASHING PEOPLE WITHOUT CONCRETE PROOF LAH IS IT?)
this is the post in which she bashed my deleted comment:
original source
HERE
kalau kau tak kisah, ada kau akan tulis satu post semata mata kerna komen ku yang tak seberapa tu ke? hihihihihihihihi. baru kena komen sikit terus melatah tulis post panjang panjang. terharu ai :')
and lagi satu boleh tak ai cakap kepada yew yang APA KAU KISAH ITU KOMEN AI YANG KAU TAK NAK PUBLISH TU KENAPA TAKUT YE HIHIHIHIHIHIHIHI.
and by the way about the "making thing worse". let me explain that to you darling..
if you didn't post those messages in your blog just because azmie showed it to you or asked you to post it, your friends won't comment
membuta tuli based on what they read in your blog only. if you post it completely with, i repeat, CONCRETE proof that i indeed flirted with that azmie, fine i am okay with it.
but nope.
there is no proof. :)
nothing at all.
just the messages and you said "MARI. MARI BERTUMBUK DI CAIRO JOM". oooh seems like you love to set up the fire wooooooohooooo. a good friend won't do such things my dear. a good friend will actually help his/her friend to settle the problem nicely.
tumbuk menumbuk ni cara yang sungguh tidak sofistikated dan berpendidikan serta teramat tidak matang lah.
so can i ask you back:
medic student in zagaziq?
second year?
and siap membatu apikan suruh azmie and faaris bertumbuk?
that explains that how "matured" and "berpendidikan" you are my dear.
;)
some of the commentors simply made their own assumptions saying that i am to be partially blame.
heck, i was the one telling faaris that this thing can be settled nicely face to face. i was the one telling him that azmie has no bad intention or whatever by sms-ing me, calling me non-stop when i was out with my parents at city stars in may 2009 (yes my parents know how i was annoyed with him at that time), i was the one that was thinking that azmie is a goodie goodie boy who is as friendly as i am with no bad intention.
but no i was wrong.
azmie didn't lie, no.
but he simply told half truths.
and half truth is just the same as lie.
:)
am i right?
he didn't admit that he is the first one sms-ing me in the first place regarding bazaar rumah sabah. and i swear i never gave him my number. in fact he started to text me after the BUKU PANDUAN DIREKTORI TELEFON PELAJAR PERUBATAN MESIR came out. so go figure how he got my number. you doesn't have to be a genius to figure that out. ;)
(edit: he admitted he got my number via certain someone from the class)
he didn't tell people that he was the one inviting me and excited about having me at the bazaar. siap nak ajak naik taxi ek elehhhhh
he didn't tell you, miss edoraemon that even he knew that we (faaris and i) were a couple, he still trying to contact me through msn and yahoo messenger.
and he didn't tell anyone that even AFTER he knew about us being together, he still tried to get my attention by disturbing me in messenger. i never initiate any conversation with him. it was always him who messaged me first. and i always replied him as normal and polite as i could although i felt like giving him a tight big slap when he kept bugging me by telling on how his exes "bernafsu lebih kuat dari dia" (DAMN RUDE RIGHT?).
i would love to put all the chat history here to make things clearer and show who's right who's wrong, who flirted with who but UNFORTUNATELY i have changed my notebook to a new one last september hence, i don't have any of the old chat history saved in this notebook.
and since you mention it, yes you are so going to be REALLY FAMOUS soon EDORAEMON also known as MISS FAZLIANA EDORA BINTI ABDUL KADIR because...
I AM GOING TO PUT YOUR PICTURES IN MY BLOG!!
EH EH SILAP SILAP NI YANG BETUL HIHIHIHIHI
edit:
all of this girl's picture
have been removed by me
because i don't want people
to bash her based on her look.
that's just so mean,
to flame people based on how they look like.
for copyright reason i am also putting her link here as well. :) so if you are interested in getting to know her or viewing her blog or ogling more of her pictures, just head to:
i am touched that you actually wrote TWO post about us edoraemon (and one of it actually about me!!)! thanks alot hehe so i am returning the favour to you now. enjoy the hits you are getting from my blog! ;)
dont forget people to give her site a visit since she is dying to become famous!
i just hope nobita is around to help you now. lalalalalala ang ang ang doraeeeemooonn~~~~~
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p.s. cepat cepat lah panggil kawan kawan sabahan adik faz untuk back up adik faz ye. sebab akak rasa itu je yang mampu adik buat. ;)
p.p.s again this post is in between me and this edoraemon girl and all her (and some of her friends) bullshitty comments on me saying that i flirted with that azmie. faaris and azmie has nothing to do with this. my intention is just to clear my name from all those bullshit claims made by saudari fazliana edora binti abdul kadir and some of her commentors especially
Shinnizle Suspek. :)
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UPDATE ON 15 OCTOBER 2009, 10.02 pm GMT+2:
faaris and i have talked to azmie face to face, in front of seven other people (as witnesses) on 3.30pm of 15 october 2009, at harris cafe in city stars, regarding this matter to clear things up. that's how educational and civilized people settle things. not by attacking people on blog without concrete proof *cough cough*
my witnesses are khairiyah (khai) and ashraf shaidan (acap).
faaris brought hakimi as his witness.
and azmie brought wan sherhan, syarah (yaya) and wan nekmah as his witnesses.
and we decided to call a truce in between us (faaris, azmie and i).
at the end of our discussion, azmie had apologised to me in front of others and admitted that he was the first one to find my number (via other classmate not by the directory), he was the one who initiated conversation in any messenger (didn't i tell you i never be the one to say hi), he was the one asking edoraemon to publish the first post to let everyone read it and everything else in front of me and other witnesses.
so we are cool right now. no hard feelings or anything.
obviously when i first wrote all the about on 14 october 2009, i was damn pissed at azmie hence all those anger in the post.
so right now i have no issue with azmie because we cleared things up.
oh you want proof that we are cool right now?
(please note the time and date of the conversation)
so i did keep my promise to azmie by explaining all these at the end of the post and he said OKAY to me when i asked whether i can include all those proof in the post. :)
AGAIN, THIS POST IS BASICALLY TO CLEAR UP MY NAME BECAUSE FAZLIANI EDORA BINTI ABDUL KADIR MADE FALSE CLAIMS ON ME, WROTE ANOTHER POST BASHING ME WITHOUT PUBLISHING MY COMMENT AS MY DEFEND AND REFUSED TO APOLOGIZE NICELY AFTER I GAVE HER 48 HOURS (AS I HAD STATED HERE) DUE TO HER EGO EVEN THOUGH AZMIE HAD TEXTED HER RIGHT AFTER THE DISCUSSION TO EXPLAIN TO HER.
SINCE SHE REFUSED TO APOLOGIZE EVEN AFTER 48 HOURS, I HAVE NO CHOICE BUT TO PUBLISH THIS POST HERE. I HAVE NO INTENTION TO TARNISH ANY NAMES IN MY BLOG OR MAKE ANY ISSUE OUT OF THIS SMALL MATTER. NOT EVEN AZMIE OR FAZLIANA EDORA (EVEN THOUGH SHE TARNISHED MY NAME BIG TIME), BUT I HAVE NO CHOICE.
I HAVE GIVEN THIS GIRL ENOUGH TIME AND I HAVE KEPT MY PROMISE FOR 48 HOURS ALTHOUGH FACT SHE WAS VERY RUDE TO ME BY QUESTIONING BACK IN HER CHATBOX AND DIDN'T DO WHAT I WANT HER TO DO WHEN I STATED EVERYTHING CLEARLY IN MY PREVIOUS POST.
(apa kes nak tulis pasal ugutan? heh. refer to what i ask her to do
HERE)
INITIALLY I ONLY WANTED TO GIVE 24 HOURS BUT OTHERS TALKED TO ME AND MADE ME SEE THROUGH THE SITUATION RATIONALLY AND I HAD COMPROMISED ENOUGH WITH THIS GIRL AND ALL HER BULLSHITS.
THANK YOU.
and these are like half of the things we are supposed to be studying this year wtf
